Accidental Death, Health, Organ Donation

Are You An Organ Donor?

Health writers never run out of topics for articles, but I like to choose ones that might be of real value to my readers. This one may be a bit edgy, though; I want to talk about organ donation. I had a friend years ago whose young, healthy son died in a car accident. I cannot fathom the pain of losing a child. It is, in fact, my greatest fear. When they approached her about organ donation she flatly refused and was incensed by the request. I can sympathize with all the emotions that went through her heart and mind, but, unfortunately, time is of the essence when it comes to harvesting organs. This time constraint often denies family members sufficient time to process their loss before they are approached to make the painful decision about donating their loved one’s organs. My friend could not feel compassion above the overwhelming grief when it came to making this decision.  Everyone experiences and approaches grief resolution in their own way and time, but some are not ever able to do so.  Such was my friend. Through God’s grace I have never had to make that gut-wrenching decision, but I know that my husband and I, and all four of our children, wish to be donors, and I would pray for the strength to carry out their wishes should the unspeakable happen.

According to, as of September 2020, 109,000 people were on the transplant list. There are nine organs that can currently be transplanted: kidneys, pancreas, liver, heart, lung, intestine, face, and hand. Skin and eyes can also be donated, skin being an organ itself. By far, however, the greatest need for organs is the kidney. Unless it is a directed donation, such as a donated organ to a matching recipient like a family member, organs are difficult to come by because an unexpected tragedy must occur for one to become available. People with chronic illnesses are not acceptable donors, so, paradoxically, one family’s grief is another family’s answered prayer or granted wish. A maze of emotions is born with each sudden, accidental end to a life.

This complex set of emotions is one reason that everyone should discuss the uncomfortable subject of organ donation with members of their families ahead of time. Include it in a living will, put it with your driver’s license, or at the very least, make your wishes known verbally to everyone, regardless of what those wishes are. The worst time to make decisions is when you are forced to make them in the heat of emotions. You are not a horrible person if you cannot accept this, but by agreeing to donation, you are giving a chance at life to someone else. It may help to put yourself in the other family’s shoes. If it was your loved one waiting for an organ and another family was grieving the loss of theirs, what would you want them to do? I am reminded of the bumper sticker that says: “Don’t take your organs to heaven; heaven knows we need them here”.  

COVID 19, COVID 19 Masks, Healthcare, Sewing

Mask Not What Your Country Can Do For you


What will this country do if we run out of masks? I think we are all getting a little antsy at home so maybe we can use this time to do some good. As a retired nurse, I feel helpless at home. I thought about going back to work, but as a senior citizen I’m in a high risk group, and I have a large local family to think about, so I’ll be taking a break from my book and opening up my sewing room for a bit. If you are like me, you have tons of extra fabric sitting around. If not, you can order supplies online and have them delivered. There are multiple sites that show you how to do it. The first one is on the Joann Fabric website and they provide a video on how to make them. They’re simple but you need to make your own (easy) pattern. If you are looking to sew en masse, these would be OK. Just be aware they won’t be much protection against COVID 19 because they don’t have a filter. . The next one is the one I think I will use. They look a bit more time consuming but still easy. They have a pocket to put a filter in, a bendy tie for across the nose, and the mask goes under the chin. I haven’t tried to buy filters yet so I’m not sure if they will be available, but if not, a heavier fabric is, again, better than nothing, I think. For all of them, the recommendation is a heavier, non-stretch fabric like denim, duck cloth, burlap, etc. This next one is fashioned like the N 95 respirators. I did not watch the entire video yet, truth be told, but you can check it out.

There are other sites, too; this is just a sampling. Surf and see which one you like best. The CDC goes back and forth on what is acceptable, but if nothing else, they might at least protect the nose and mouth from the juicier coughs and sneezes.

And here is my next brainstorm for non-sewers. You can start laughing right now. I don’t see why we couldn’t fashion masks out of panty liners. They are made of thick, waterproof material and are soft. We could attach elastic or fabric ties to them with a couple of stitches. It certainly wouldn’t provide the coverage or protection that an N 95 or surgical mask would, but it would be better than nothing if we run out. And that’s all I’m going to say about that!

Ladies and gentlemen, use this time at home to help your community and your country and please, stay safe.